Causing

To cause to happen is to direct energy towards changing something or someone.

We cause others harm or health by our actions, yet we are never the cause of how a person takes what happens to them. Better to deal more with effects than the causes of things. The cause is finished, while the effects still remain. It helps no one, including yourself, to blame outside people and forces. And this applies to the 'good' things as well. Change how you react to things and you will make more happen consistent with your goals and values.

It is important to make yourself realistically effective in whatever you do, and to take responsibility for yourself without blame.