If you want me, you can find me, left of center, wondering about you.

The best way to find "love," which, incidentally, is just as true for finding money, is to focus less on these by-products of a life well lived and more on a life well lived.

Simple is as simple does, darlings, and disappointment over any affair in life, turn of events, or twist of "fate," always reveals that the affair, event, or occurrence was viewed as a "how" towards achieving something greater like love, joy, or a new "something better" with bells and whistles, which now seems even further out of reach.

Both profound misunderstandings.


And as an aside, in case we've forgotten: The need to clarify, explain, or justify oneself in personal relationships, is always self-serving.

And, yes, that's okay. What's important, though, is knowing the truth about why you felt the need, because it often points to insecurities that could be dealt with in more effective ways.