You know, it's totally possible to have big, huge, gigantic dreams, yet still be deliriously happy with today.

I think it is some sort of built-in double-happiness redundancy factor.

And darlin', don't fret that some seem not to notice your refinement, enlightenment, and -- dare I say it? -- sashay. They're still learning from you in their own way.

No matter what they say or don't say, my dear, they chose to know you because it would make them more.