One of today's horoscopes:

"You must make a decision now about what role to play. Do you want to be the responsible and serious person who tries to control others just to get the job done? Or will you downplay your authoritative tendency and try to go along with the external flow, even if it's not as efficient as you desire? You cannot play both sides, so make a choice and move on."

That about sums it up. Which side to choose?